The Potnas begin this episode with a “Debrief of the Week”, where they unpack the 50 Cent concert JT attended, absurd concert ticket prices and taking your significant other everywhere with you (3:17). D-No then walks listeners through a recent situation he experienced with a white mother and her children at his son’s school, which leads to an intense debate about whether the situation was racial or not (26:55). In “News”, the boys discuss Donald Trump’s trending mug shot and how it impacts his run for a second presidential term (44:17). During the “Highlight Topic”, JT asks D-No a series of thought-provoking, scenario-based questions about managing uninvited guests, loaning money to people “in need”, and friendship tiers (50:41). Don’t miss a second of the conversation from your favorite podcast duo!
The Potnas begin this episode with a “Debrief of the Week”, where they unpack the 50 Cent concert JT attended, absurd concert ticket prices and taking your significant other everywhere with you (3:17). D-No then walks listeners through a recent situation he experienced with a white mother and her children at his son’s school, which leads to an intense debate about whether the situation was racial or not (26:55). In “News”, the boys discuss Donald Trump’s trending mug shot and how it impacts his run for a second presidential term (44:17). During the “Highlight Topic”, JT asks D-No a series of thought-provoking, scenario-based questions about managing uninvited guests, loaning money to people “in need”, and friendship tiers (50:41). Don’t miss a second of the conversation from your favorite podcast duo!
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Speaker 3:You got one of the one.
Speaker 1:You gotta do that shit. Unfortunately it doesn't yeah.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that's not right there.
Speaker 1:Yeah, 50 cent man, what a legend. He's in my top five. Hip-hop. Legends and rappers in your all-time top five. Yes.
Speaker 3:So this is the what 50 years is my favorite anniversary. We need to talk about that.
Speaker 1:Yeah, 50 year anniversary, 50th anniversary of hip-hop and he was in Houston. He actually lives in Houston for those who didn't know. And then he had a lot of legends that came out. He had a legend himself who's also in my top five Busta rhymes opened up for him.
Speaker 3:What was that? My show, yeah.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, oh. And Dino has a Wu Tang shirt on.
Speaker 3:He has a concert shirt. New York State of mind. We both have concert shirts. We got these shirts off of the street, by the way that were. Um, I was rocking this one because I was trying to make him jealous.
Speaker 1:Oh, you're trying to make me jealous. You didn't know that I came prepared, yeah. I didn't know, I had to had the shirt as well, but anyways, uh, yeah, uh, 50 he brought out. Well, the folk, the rappers that were, are the artists that were already on tour with him. Uh, busta rhymes and split start had opened up for him.
Speaker 3:And then he's been with him the whole time.
Speaker 1:Yeah, tony yellow and uncle murder word. They uh were his hype man slash life Help for breath control. But he didn't need it at all because 50 has excellent breath control you can tell he still works out daily Um, and then uh, and then he had Jeremiah. Uh, Jeremiah was the. That's a curveball ankle line Right and so, uh, you say it's curveball, but he has like five songs, uh, with him.
Speaker 3:I only know like one, Uh, though maybe two.
Speaker 1:Let me see if I can play one right now.
Speaker 3:I mean we did it. I mean it's still like even when you played, I was like, oh no, I ain't never heard that before. Yeah, but Jeremiah, I mean, yeah, he rock. I'm sure I know he got them. I know he got them thumpers, but as far as like them, what if I could just not play them on my uh?
Speaker 1:but I know better All right, we're gonna just keep talking.
Speaker 3:Yeah, but you like, I feel like. See, I know that song Um. But Jeremiah on his own that he's a good in between act, I guess, kind of where he's setting up Some of who came after that.
Speaker 2:You gonna play it anyway. I'm still monetized. Well, I mean, every keep talking over it.
Speaker 1:I like how 50 cent. Whenever he's an artist, like our featured artist, he'd be whispering this something.
Speaker 3:She's like every artist has a phase, like Wayne had a phase when he was doing like mad auto.
Speaker 1:He always sounded like a grim one.
Speaker 3:But not I mean it was he had an error where he was just.
Speaker 1:And then, uh, because he was in houston, he brought out, uh, houston legends, paul wall and slim thug. And then, uh, the legendary scarface, who's I? I've come to eventually find out that he's on a lot of people's top five.
Speaker 3:Of course, look at what he went the best storytellers in hip hop.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, yeah, he's pretty maybe slick, and he looked really great too. He was in in shape and Uh faces him. Yeah, and then uh, who else did he bring out? I think that was it, that was the whole.
Speaker 3:I came out but I was going to, but they called me but I was Unsomble baby.
Speaker 1:We'll see but yeah, it was exceptional. Um, the highlight for me, I mean well, the women man, all right, so those women there 50. Oh, not only like performance, performance. Yes, he had like 20 women on stage, but you think like dancing? Yes, like like, no, like actual dancing though, like performance, like choreography. It wasn't just like ashakin, like they were talented. They were doing splits. They were flipping.
Speaker 1:They were, um, twisting each other and throwing each other and hopping over each other and stuff and it was. It was like Acrobatic performances, like if they were. I don't know where he got. It looked like he got like the best of dancers from like all the mba and nfl. Teams and then put them on the team.
Speaker 3:They're like a the ultimate squad. Yeah, they have a whole cast they were exceptional.
Speaker 1:And then, uh, one of them, one of the baddest ones, uh, because they were all beautiful, you can tell. They were like just how they were built and stuff. But, uh, the solo, uh Performer that performed with Jeremiah while he was playing the piano and stuff. They had a moment where they were, uh, where, she was dancing on them.
Speaker 3:No one of the dancers.
Speaker 1:Okay, one of the female dancers? Yeah, and he dropped the bro damn. Yeah, I was like, okay, you need to get back in the gym bro.
Speaker 1:Oh, no, but like how he dropped her, though, like I'm so much she was like you know, like how she like hops on him and stuff. He couldn't like yeah, but you know, granted he, I guess, his excuses. He had one hand on his mic and then the other was supposed to be holding her. You posted a little thick too Not like like thick, like like she was slim thick she's slim Like Jeremiah.
Speaker 3:I don't know if he don't seem like a guy who's like he's not. How was his? What was he like?
Speaker 1:I mean he's tall, Okay, he's tall and he I mean he don't look meaty and stuff with her, but I mean clearly that nigga don't work out.
Speaker 3:So that's too much, but I ain't dropping nobody though.
Speaker 1:Yeah, um, and my thing is I'm like, okay, yeah, y'all rehearsed, but there was not one dull moment in that. Uh, in the concert I mean, I bet not at all.
Speaker 3:Much like the uncle murder actually do is like a song.
Speaker 1:Tony a yo and uncle murder did not perform at all any of their songs but they were just with 50 the entire time.
Speaker 3:So you caught him. Hype man. I was like yo, that's wow. But when I thought about it I was like I mean and and they're notable rappers, too like for them to be just be hype man.
Speaker 1:So you know, 50 was just like it's my shit.
Speaker 3:I mean, he still brought his people with him. Yeah, exactly, they may be taking care of them.
Speaker 1:They was on stage, he had like eight outfit changes and they were like legit too, like legit outfit change, like one of them.
Speaker 3:He changed like the wife beater with the uh, the horse. No, he didn't do that, no, no, yeah, yeah, he did during that moment.
Speaker 1:Uh, he was in all white. That was the highlight for me was uh, he performed I'm the man and uh, the song with chris brown.
Speaker 3:Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah and that song.
Speaker 1:Um, because that's when the confetti, and there's like a moment in the song where, like it's, it's leading to a climax, and then the beat, the bass drops, and then uh and man, that moment, that's when the smoke went up and the confetti started popping.
Speaker 3:He had a whole. It was a whole entire production.
Speaker 1:It was break dancers, it was uh. Strippers yeah no, no, no, no, no. Not strippers, but they had polls and stuff. So when he did like um Pimp or disco inferno. Yeah, he did I will go ahead, boy. That's it. It was crazy. It looked like we were in A fire pit like Mortal Kombat. He did candy shop. He did candy shop yeah. Oh yeah, they tore that shit up Now.
Speaker 3:I was so impressed it, bro, because even like when I was at the not the, was it called new york state of mind tour, our show, rather, with um nars Wu Tang, I was just so impressed that production was not even how do I say, it was dope, but it wasn't like they were just making good use of modern technology, yeah it wasn't like they wasn't. They wouldn't know. Goddamn dancers or pyrotechnics and none of that shit, but I was thoroughly engaged.
Speaker 3:What they have is like the entire stage is back in. The stage was a screen, like multiple, and so like one screen kind of be a little bit more in front, but the whole everything was a screen. And they have like whole new york city backdrop sets and you and the project like pj.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah. Yeah, it was like a very similar to yeah yeah, they had an led screen huge. Yeah, his intro, his 50s inch entrance or intro, when he came out or whatever. It was like this Uh, glass box and uh, but it was broken in half and then it came together and formed a box and then it filled with smoke and then it opened up and then he shattered it and came out, and then that's when he started performing.
Speaker 3:But um boy when was the first song he did?
Speaker 1:Uh, he did um a wankster. Yeah, it was wankster, mm-hmm. No, actually it was. Uh, I forgot the name of the song, but it's the one that go.
Speaker 3:Damn, that's about all of them. Yeah, I'm trying to see.
Speaker 1:But when that shit came up, man, that shit was dumb, hey. And then he did I get money, that shit, yeah, man.
Speaker 3:But uh, I feel like many men is when I would really want to hear that he performed that. I would have to hear that one like you know?
Speaker 1:uh, you know, when artists they complete, they said they, they do the first wave and then they like all right, thank y'all for coming out, I appreciate y'all encore back on stage.
Speaker 3:They want you to share.
Speaker 1:Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3:Yeah, so because?
Speaker 1:because he left some notable songs out, or whatever like he's coming back and so, uh, he left a window shopper out, and then he left, um, uh, I whooped your head boy. And then um, and then many men, and so, like all the all the uh the mix tape cuts basically. I mean yeah but uh, that's the good the movie made that one, Like we're hearing.
Speaker 3:Honestly I probably go that one. That movie was exceptional. We have a rich or die try.
Speaker 1:I mean, go check it out if you haven't and that's one of the best rap albums ever ever. Okay, yeah, you put, I think, I think it's a classic album for sure that's my favorite of he is for sure it is.
Speaker 3:I do put in the classic category because people throw that term around.
Speaker 1:It's got to be everybody out in the classic best albums ever bro Like just the whole ensemble, the whole package and hip hop 21 questions. Yes, yeah, oh yeah. Because you got to think about everything that he put into that. Into it like it's a. It's r&b tracks on there like r&b that's the conversation.
Speaker 3:We need hip hop tracks on there. We need to have a. We need to have a.
Speaker 1:Our 50th anniversary we got to have a yeah hip hop conversation. Yeah, I mean, we never broke down.
Speaker 3:Have we buzzed out on the list?
Speaker 1:It's just me and you today, so we can, we can talk about that.
Speaker 3:That's, that's, that's, that's too much time.
Speaker 1:I got some stuff on uh, uh, well, okay, one thing we do want to talk about there's a common thread, right. Okay well between both shows and I have a 50 cup, by the way.
Speaker 3:And he got nine bullet holes in front of that one. That's crazy, that's remarkable.
Speaker 1:Yeah.
Speaker 3:Creative. All right, we were saying there's a common thread in the show you saw, in the show I saw, yeah.
Speaker 1:Buster rhymes it's blipster. Oh yeah, bro.
Speaker 3:So I mean bus is like, I mean buses. He opened up the show, he's still him.
Speaker 1:What did he do for y'all? Did he close out the show or open?
Speaker 3:He was second to last at he, he did his, and then they came on. Whoo came on again after that with like Young dirty bastard or somebody, and like they did.
Speaker 1:Man, when this Say do you know the worst of this?
Speaker 3:bro, I know the worst, everyone's good.
Speaker 1:I was screaming the entire time when he was on, the entire time, you know, but we keep going.
Speaker 3:I'm about to have this in the background, so this is a good segue into um, I mean, you got to faith that I mean eventually, bro, so check it. What was? What was? I mean? This is the observation, right, Don't don't read too much into it. Take it with a grain of salt, people. But when that came on, I mean I know like, I mean I'm like you, I'm. That's probably the most hype I was at. The entire show was bus right.
Speaker 1:He's definitely the most exciting out of all the people that you name, I mean Tang nausea. Such a static performer.
Speaker 3:They do certain. They do certain joints, like what meth did um if OD dirty bastard was still alive.
Speaker 1:He would be the highlight of the show. But ghost phase has energy method has energy they all do, bro.
Speaker 3:They all bring a certain in it, but that's what was so ill like.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I expected that, but.
Speaker 3:The whole. I mean, the greater point about that was like man. For me it was a no brainer, like a I call them legacy acts, people who, like 50 was a game, still is a game changer. Yeah, like bro, he built a network stars what am I? Did you watch any star show before he had power on stars? They one should also I'm stars.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I mean, I'm not gonna lie bro, like I know I didn't. I watched crash my cuz, oh that was a good one.
Speaker 3:My cousin was on that but other than that yeah that was a good show too, though yeah, it's based off of the the movie. But um, they did my girl dirty on that movie. Who, um the wife was, uh, tyrann's Harold's wife, who played his wife? Oh yeah, didn't she?
Speaker 1:uh, you know what happened to her. She got a shot right she got no bad police officer. Yeah, oh, oh, dandy newton. Yeah, bro, she's still bad.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I should think I used to get her and zoe mixed up.
Speaker 1:Oh yeah, that's ridiculous. What else do I got? Do I make you horny?
Speaker 3:That's kind of like. I mean, that was anyway.
Speaker 1:All right. What were you saying? Um about Nas or busta? What uh?
Speaker 3:no it was bust.
Speaker 1:Um, we're gonna wrap this up too.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I ain't gonna lie. I mean what I, what I? I don't remember what I was gonna say, what?
Speaker 1:I was gonna say replacement ain't worth saying.
Speaker 3:But no, uh, both like bus was at both shows. Man, oh, I got it, I got it back. It's a good second.
Speaker 1:He opened up with any home before I lose it before I lose it.
Speaker 3:Okay, he did, he performed that one, but that wouldn't, that wouldn't open her. Okay, bus. What I noticed about when bus was on was on um, when it was his set Wu Tang Nas too, but like specifically bus. And then I noticed it too with parts of wu set man.
Speaker 1:It was a like if I energy shift, uh it was a, but it was mad energy.
Speaker 3:It was like it's hard to describe it was mad energy, but like when I looked around, bro, it was like a lot of white people, young white college kids, like a lot of them.
Speaker 1:Where that's my gripe.
Speaker 3:He did, he did he, he performed this for this. He, he, yeah, yeah, he performed it with us. He gave us all that shit. I don't know why he did that.
Speaker 1:He said don't, it was the very last song. He was like don't this shit make a nigga? And then the bass hit and then he was like we out, and then they walked out Our protest and I was like, but but but you gotta remember, like like there was like 11 performers Fuck this shit.
Speaker 3:We didn't play it in the lineup, I know right but now he I rather him not gave us everything. Yeah, he gave us that. Why he gave us everything he?
Speaker 1:gave us the new track too, would be a he has a new album coming out. And uh, let me see if I got the. Uh, I'll play a little bit of the cut right now.
Speaker 3:You don't want us to make no money. Yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:I'll give it a fine. We're in a more podcast, baby. As a card I think it's called beach ball On your airwaves, right.
Speaker 3:Uh, but check it, man it banged to executive produced by Swiss.
Speaker 1:Beats for Ralph. You think we can. It's Timberland, oh, but this one's made by hitmaker.
Speaker 3:Why you shut them out.
Speaker 1:Because their album is executive producer. I told you it sounds different over some headphones. Yeah, and bea is fine, by the way.
Speaker 3:She didn't look how I thought she would look yeah. Why didn't?
Speaker 1:I thought she would look, I thought I thought bea, bea would.
Speaker 3:I thought bea and Koi Koi Koi Leray were the same person and then never like no, I can see nah, koi, koi got it.
Speaker 1:How do you say her name? Koi, leray Koi, leray Koi. No, so there's no E in it Koi.
Speaker 3:E Leray. I just know that's how it's pronounced, leray.
Speaker 1:Right now. Right now, all right, let's get into. Do you have a deep?
Speaker 3:Oh, but yes, oh, that's why I say this is a good segue, because at the at the Wu Tang bus show I know it's a lot of like suburban Caucasian, like kids, maybe college age and whatnot. Of course they like split them, but like they knew every word to the song. Yeah, I also noticed that when I was at the TDE Championship tour, like every, like most shows I go to, when I look around like damn, like this, there's a good amount of us, but when I, when you really look at it, it's like damn, it's safe to say that white people really do love hip-hop.
Speaker 1:Well, I think the world, I guess it's no, I mean like of course it's still a cultural appropriation in some instances, but for the most part they're the main ones at the festivals, in the studios, when DMX.
Speaker 3:We're performing for it, bro, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1:Well, that's who? Yeah, especially nowadays because concerts are extremely high.
Speaker 3:They are a lot of the shows we talk about. They have been yeah.
Speaker 1:You had asked me how much I spent on 50 like it. It was reasonable like like about 350, 400.
Speaker 3:Yeah but, I didn't finish other.
Speaker 1:Oh, oh, you got a friend.
Speaker 3:No, I mean I'm him, but I ain't like him like that. Yeah, dude, no, I pay, but and I had a similar experience Well, I didn't know, we was in like a sweet type situation. I had no idea. But all that to say in Toyota center is nice by the way it's still. It was, I mean, I mean, but we said we're paying whatever, whatever it was, because we're going. Everybody can't do that bro. Everybody can't say, fuck it, we going regardless. It's some people paying for big concerts Tickets and that's Double their mortgage.
Speaker 1:Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, okay. So certain artists like Beyonce that have just like skyrocketed to the point where you would literally have to have who would you pay for?
Speaker 3:three to six, but you would pay like three racks to go see right now right?
Speaker 1:No, no, absolutely not. No, pharrell probably.
Speaker 3:Pharrell yeah, like to watch him do what like rap Perform. Yeah, yeah, bro, now you gotta be turning flips and hitting tricks or something they could be doing.
Speaker 1:he would be having that because he would have a skateboard or skate, he's gonna have a skateboard rink in it, he he can literally bring out Half of hip-hop got a lot. He can bring out Justin Timberlake, snoop Dogg.
Speaker 3:If he's hosting like a showcase, exactly that's he's worth it. Look, beyonce isn't features no openers, just one person. They will hit the stage by them, damn self. Who is that?
Speaker 1:Be all right, I say, doesn't have a bunch of features.
Speaker 3:Nobody is worth Michael Jackson. It's her dance crew in her live band.
Speaker 1:That's it for the most part, and that show does not look like.
Speaker 3:I can't wait to sell them, relax but here's my point who would you go see? Take, put her to the side, just them I ain't talking about, for nobody. Pharrell bringing all these other people. No, would you go pay a little seat muffled.
Speaker 1:It'll be somebody that is. It'll be somebody that I admire, that I have, that I haven't seen yet.
Speaker 3:Here's the problem, but. I'm not hearing a name, though I For me, it's no one. I'll make it easy for you. I already said that.
Speaker 1:I said it was no one.
Speaker 3:But like no one I could fathom.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but you said three, three racks or three like three thousand dollars. Facts yes, concert tickets don't cost that much that Beyonce concert tickets, that, whatever they are still liking the five hundreds they're not that bad when you sitting, though. Huh Googling right now, let's look it up bro, the ones that I bought, that I bought. I pay $900 for them, and they're about them win.
Speaker 1:And huh when you buy them a while ago, exactly no, if you look now, they're not gonna be. No, not, I guarantee you. They are because my, my, my resell, hasn't, hasn't Haven't sold my tickets yet.
Speaker 3:I know how we kind of. We'll talk about later. I'm like where your tickets at the seat there?
Speaker 1:They're like they're not on the floor. They're the next tier up. Okay, it's in the middle. Yeah, they're really good people who pay racks for tickets because they're stupid and they and they Also aren't aware of the gimmicks and stuff. Look up like this If you're not aware of the ticket master and the and huh, these be hivers like the live nation, like you gotta just know the websites Right. And so they on, bro, they on like you get game.
Speaker 3:Well, listen, I'll kind of yeah, right, but they're paying that cuz they want that. My point is, regardless, like maybe they got back, say pet, who knows right? But my point is like who is it? Well, I would pay that for. Not even like, let's say you, that don't hurt. Okay, let's take that three racks down to 300, but it's really hard to get these mugs. Are you gonna wait in line for him, like back in the day people used to do for sure leases and such? Yeah, who would you do that for?
Speaker 1:I don't got nobody if for real is your guy bro, this is blasphemy from you like, like you, kind of like in the rain. Yes, three racks back then, yeah, I was still no, no, no, no, stop, take the three racks out, cuz that's not reasonable, that's not real. That's not real. Nobody's paying three thousand fucking dollars To be on like on the stage and be able to touch Beyonce. Yeah, they're paying that. I'm talking about standard like general admission tickets, not general admission like where's in like you're going to. I'm talking about like in a normal arena or you can't ask.
Speaker 3:No, no, bro, in the middle area the reasonable tickets where you're like and, oh yeah, the ones where they bring you oxygen because you saw a damn high.
Speaker 1:Okay, oh yeah, those we can move on because you being, you being real cynical, you being an asshole right now, no, that's Beyonce tickets.
Speaker 3:Anyway, I saw her husband.
Speaker 1:Yes, I'm what you're saying about white people.
Speaker 3:You had a point. Let's not keep just going back to them. But all I was saying was there's a segue into man. It was a lot of them at the concert. It's always a lot of them and they be getting in. I mean, you know they smoke a lot we, but here's the thing oh, Something happened. Yeah, man. So we're talking about the brief. You went to a concert. That's beautiful. My brother congratulates. I'm glad you and your lady had a great time.
Speaker 1:I'm not jealous of nothing. Um she's my best friend. I love going places where he trying to score points niggas probably.
Speaker 3:Sam.
Speaker 1:My friends begin a little annoyed sometimes. You know, only you and Courtney are the only people that like just don't get bothered by bringing Sam wherever Okay. No, but, uh, but, but. But I get it like there times where it is just like road, like you gotta bring your girl everywhere and stuff Whatever. I used to hear that all the time all throughout the. You know I'm like yeah, because I actually like my girl.
Speaker 3:Again, I do understand.
Speaker 1:There are some times where it's just got just the guys my bro, I love my chick, I like road.
Speaker 3:It's time to general tell you where I like.
Speaker 1:Yo, we already talked about the difference between. Jen and Sam Jen is like a girl's girl. Sam is not.
Speaker 3:She's like kicking it with the guy, introvert, extrovert.
Speaker 1:I don't know, and she don't like hanging out with girls, unless it's a certain amount of people. She cares a lot about chemistry and I do too, right, and so like they're like, okay, but she got mad.
Speaker 3:She got homegirls that she really fucked with, though, so it's not like you. Like she's walking around here Watching baseball with the film scratching her nuts. Yeah, she got she's. She. She likes to dress, and like I, just like you said.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I know, wait, wait. No, I hate when niggas do that like just get fixated on something and miss the point and then completely Diverse.
Speaker 3:That's why I'm like you know, sam, I'm trained professional, so what are you saying about? Uh, here's the thing, okay, um, I do agree, though, nah, I mean, I mean, she ain't got to come out of. Not, she isn't, sam, she isn't like whoever, like your lady yeah don't gotta come all the time.
Speaker 3:Nah, like Jen, I mean if we could love exactly all the same shit. Nah, sometimes you need to go do this shit with your people that you like to do this shit with. And I'm do shit Because you need to always have you like yeah, you become one, your union, but you got to always keep you. I keep telling my party that's a little tip. Well, take it home with you putting your back pocket, take away that you putting your pipe and smoke it.
Speaker 1:Is your point about what you experience with the light of complexed people going? To tie into news or Are we ready to transition?
Speaker 3:Oh, you got some news.
Speaker 1:Yeah, oh yeah, we got some news.
Speaker 3:No, I don't have news. This was more so, just about my experience.
Speaker 1:You want to wait for the high-tech highlight topic or you want to bring it up right now.
Speaker 3:Uh, I'll say this as a part of your debrief. I'll say it's a part of my debrief, okay, and maybe this, I don't know, maybe just bring us into it. So.
Speaker 1:Yeah, if it does, then we can do. You can, we can talk about it, then do news and then get back into it. Back to it, okay.
Speaker 3:I rock with it. Just just promise me one thing yeah, news is not no, like morbid shit, like a plane crash.
Speaker 1:Oh, no, no, no, no, no. I only have two points. One of them, we have to talk about. We have to talk about because it is going to be talked about for the rest, the remainder of the year.
Speaker 3:What don't say India landed on Mars? No, no, no let's okay, I'll wait.
Speaker 1:Okay.
Speaker 3:I just don't want to be like 20,000 people die in a plane crash.
Speaker 1:Okay, I've learned my lesson, Um so.
Speaker 3:Something we have in common, right, is we're both dads, we're from a similar environment, we currently reside in the burbs, but being black in the burbs is different. So, like we're talking about, I was again kind of transition over from talking about seeing a sea of suburbanites at this concert, thoroughly enjoying this art form from people who are from completely Opposite environments. Right, my kids live a very different life than I, than I live like, not, I mean, I had a great upbringing. My parents were amazing, don't get me wrong. But, like my kids are coming up suburbanites, this is the only world they know. A household with two parents and a home they own, with cars that are paid off, with a dad who owns a little bit Like this is the only thing they know, right? So my daughter's school is beautiful. I mean, I had never seen no elementary school look like this in my life. They have tile on the walls. It don't make any damn sense. My son's daycare is beautiful. It looks like the Children's Museum had a baby with goddamn Primrose and it's where he goes to school.
Speaker 3:What happened? I'm taking my son into daycare, dropped off my daughter, her beautiful as elementary school. We drive a couple miles down the road to my son's daycare. Walking in there's a woman who parks next to me. In it I mean, I don't know, maybe midsize SUV, it's a nice car, I remember what she's driving. She pulls up next to me. We get at the same time. We both got a little little, maybe Toddlers, we both have toddlers. We're going to the same area. We're walking in the school when I'm a gentle man, right, I was raising a time where men still held the doors and pulled out chairs we're walking in and like yo, I kind of this automatic doors. So she's like we're both walking into the same time. I stepped to the side, kind of like let her say you know, after you she walks in. They look me, look at me. They didn't acknowledge me. But I'm thinking we both in a hurry. Oh, we both in a hurry, we both moving real fast.
Speaker 3:Okay, we hit the corner. She has a son with her, maybe he's I don't know around seven, six or seven. He see some of his partners in a classroom to the right. She's like hold on, we got a drop baby sister off hers. So, boom, we hit the corner. Son, kind of hang around like come on, come on, timothy. Okay, boom, timothy runs up. He's in front of mom. Now now mom's now Walk in in. The is like Timothy's in front, mom's right here, and then there's like baby girl, baby girl's walking barely, she's like Dray and she keeps, she's lingering, she's looking back and she makes eye contact with me and I'm like you know, you know I'm with a child. Is she in the way or something?
Speaker 1:or what Not at?
Speaker 3:all, not even a little bit. Okay, so I just want her to. I don't know. Moms is in a rush. I look at her like, oh, hey, I'll give her a smile, kind of shoot her away. Mom looks back and says, ah, a bad guy, a bad guy, he's gonna hurt you. Come on, come on, oh damn yeah, yeah.
Speaker 3:And the little girl, just, she's just kind of smiling. She's looking at me Like she didn't even hear her mom, really low key, and mom's like see nothing, she's not scared, now, she's not even nothing. And I'm like I don't know how to feel. I'm like, is it, you know? I don't know, but she never really looks at me because when she's saying this at this point she's come out the classroom and the teacher's kind of picking a little girl up. She's like see nothing? She's not, she's afraid of nothing. Look at that.
Speaker 1:So it wasn't like the she was. She wasn't trying to say like stranger, she wasn't looting to stranger danger. No.
Speaker 3:I don't know, because she never made eye contact with me, she never really acknowledged me and she pointed, but she pointed at you.
Speaker 1:No, I was right there, like you, were the only guy in the whole only thing.
Speaker 3:Look a bad guy. I'm the only breathing human being, aside from my tiny one-year-old son who's there, and she's like a bad guy. She doesn't say a monster, a Bookie man.
Speaker 1:Did you ask her like uh, excuse me, man, what did you?
Speaker 3:mean by that? No, but I did, but I even like when I was telling you about you didn't. I said something, I did, but I feel like what I said was too late. I'm at the point of life where I naturally react and then I apologize later.
Speaker 1:What? But I like and it's been a long time since. I'm gonna get to this point because I've held in a lot of shit in the past and now I love the.
Speaker 3:Conflict. You like drama now? Oh, I hate drama.
Speaker 1:No, I've always loved the drama. I'm a drama king right, that's being, that's being right, exactly. But um, I Want the smoke now, like I'll be ready it, ready for it, like I've used to practice what I like, the stuff that I wish I could would have said, or like whenever I go back home and I'm like man I wish I would have said bitch, and I wish I would did this differently back in this in the scenario.
Speaker 3:Like you know, and it's secure.
Speaker 1:Did you ever watch insecure? Of course I did.
Speaker 3:You know the scenes where Aqua black girl.
Speaker 1:Yeah, you know the scenes where she's in the bathroom and in the mirror and she's like, yeah, Like it's herself talking to herself and like I don't know why you let her side look at you like that or whatever. You should just let that bitch.
Speaker 3:Yeah.
Speaker 1:So that's what I, what I used to do, and then I eventually got to the point where I started performing what I would practice and reenact, tell people that yeah why.
Speaker 3:I don't know if like that's like the Joker or just stories, I'm sure oh okay, used to act in the mirror and then.
Speaker 1:Yeah, but um, but uh, damn, that sucks, bro, that's, that's crazy.
Speaker 3:So okay, hold on, I have a question for you. Yeah, so Just to put a period on the sentence. Oh, I'm like, I'm so taking a bet, I'm kind of like I don't know. So I walk past and I'm like, well, she looked like a conservative Bro. I was trying not to mention her looks, but yes, well, she looks like. How do I say this?
Speaker 1:Why do we do that? Why do we like try so hard not to Well, no, she was just like still judge a.
Speaker 3:What's that Can't, what's that?
Speaker 1:It's like a little like a Susan, like a radical Democrat or like a come like suit.
Speaker 3:She looked like a I'm trying to think how to say baby crocker. Have you ever seen the movie Um Monsters incorporated?
Speaker 1:Yeah, you remember sully sully the the blue, yeah, the blue monster.
Speaker 3:So she was shaped like that, but if she had Mike Wachowski's bottom half, hey, she was built like an ice cream cone. I was trying to, I was gonna say a drumstick.
Speaker 1:I was.
Speaker 2:It was bad, yeah, but no she had like these tights if I like, now she's locked in my memory forever.
Speaker 3:She had blonde hairs up in a messy bun. She got that ice cream body blue and black tights on and I don't remember her shirt Say, but I think it was like an astros and she got one off on you talking about I don't know if she was talking about me. I've run a scenario a million times in my mind and I don't like what was the question.
Speaker 1:Okay, okay, so what's the question?
Speaker 3:Okay, first question is how would I respond? Well, am I overthinking it? Like, what if there's a scenario where I'm in, I don't let her go first and I'm in front of her now, I'm so glad that you experienced this. I'm in front of her now and she says the same shit, and it's clearly not to me, because I'm in front of her.
Speaker 1:Well, one thing about you, Dino you see the best in people.
Speaker 3:I try to bro.
Speaker 1:No, you don't try to, you just do.
Speaker 3:Yeah, no, I was just an inherent.
Speaker 1:Always like I thought I was a good guy until until I started seeing how you just literally practice what you preach and goodness gracious Like it's quite annoying sometimes because I'd just be like, I'd be wanting you to be realistic.
Speaker 3:There's a bunch of ways to see shit.
Speaker 1:And I'm so glad that this-. You glad I experienced fucking racist yeah yeah, yes, and I'm glad that she gave you a taste of fucking reality.
Speaker 3:What if it was not? And basically, huh, what if it was?
Speaker 1:not. It would have been hilarious if she would have been like oh look, monkey, ha ha ha Bro, hilarious.
Speaker 3:Ha ha ha, I'd be in jail. We got to end this. I don't believe, you guys. No, but it was, and it was a phone chair in the classroom right to the left.
Speaker 1:Look, man, like not everybody is for us, and if she was talking about you, she could have been talking about you in two different lights. I feel like Bad guy is in Stranger Danger, which I feel like classic Dino would say yeah, she's referring to me as Stranger Danger. I get it, cause we're in a daycare. Hey, bad guy With Steve. Bro, I'm Steve, I don't say that to it. She's probably saying that, okay, well, hold on. Let me ask some context.
Speaker 3:I know she's right. I know she's right.
Speaker 1:Why no? Cause now I'm gonna use-.
Speaker 3:Politically, they operate in fear.
Speaker 1:I'm going to operate the same logic and Gonna take our guns. That you would use to me and this scenario.
Speaker 3:I'm gonna apply it to you.
Speaker 1:Okay, I'm listening, you are making the assumption that she's right, wayne, right. I'm just saying no, I'm not Because she's white and she's built like an ice cream cone and she didn't have no control of them kids, but maybe she said she mentioned you as a bad guy to help lure her kid who wasn't listening and paying attention to her and she was probably late for work and she was trying to hurry up and corral her kids.
Speaker 3:That doesn't make it okay, bro, that makes it worse. That's my point, and it's not because of how she looks.
Speaker 1:And if she didn't apologize and say sorry, then that's what I think, what is bothering you. And she didn't look at you, she just used you as an example.
Speaker 3:She's used you as a tool. Is that okay? No, it doesn't. It's not about how she looked, what she was wearing or what her childhood.
Speaker 1:You want my answer or you want the Dino answer? The Dino answer would be like don't make a assumption.
Speaker 3:I don't have an answer for me. I'm Dino.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I know, but I'm giving you a dose of your own medicine.
Speaker 3:My medicine. You can't mix this medicine. It's a secret formula. But here's the thing.
Speaker 1:What I'm trying to understand. You don't like it when it's applied to you.
Speaker 3:No, no, no, is this? Even I feel like you're not acknowledging it's one thing we're running past, we got to, we got to you're really, you're, really.
Speaker 1:I'm gonna give you the real. I'm gonna give you the real JT take because you know what's coming.
Speaker 3:I'm trying to figure out one thing that we keep running past, like is it okay for her to use me as a tool of fear to get her child to do something that she can't get her to do on her own? My point with saying I believe she may be right leaning perhaps is because there's not to say that the left lean, and at this point I don't know where I'm going.
Speaker 1:Well, if she didn't never look at you, she never pointed at you, then you don't know.
Speaker 3:Politically they operate in like fear everything's fear-based bro?
Speaker 1:Again, you don't know, because you're the only guy they're putting in our open borders they're teaching our kids indoctrination they're.
Speaker 1:You don't know, because you were the only guy in the hallway. That's why I asked was there anybody else in the hallway? Just me and it was just you, so it's easy for you to assume that, because you're the only guy in there in your black and she looks like this right wing conservative woman that doesn't have a control of. Oh, okay, fuck the looks. It's the fact that she's a white woman and she's using kids to okay. She's a woman Using fear.
Speaker 3:Using fear.
Speaker 1:Okay, but you saying fear, we have to bring up the fact that she's white. I mean you have to, because if she wasn't white then you wouldn't be asking this question about fear. Because if she, was a black woman. If she was a black woman and she said that, then you would automatically know oh, she's not talking about me being the black guy, she's talking about me being a stranger danger. You would automatically assume that, no, you're wrong. Why? Oh, she would assume that you're a thug. Then, Hell no.
Speaker 3:Tisza. Here's the thing, what. There's no assuming anything. If she were a black woman or a brown woman or any woman, I would still have a problem with her using fear to get her daughter to do something that she wants her to do at my expense. Why are you training her to be afraid of me just to get her to?
Speaker 3:Because you are a stranger, Hold on no, no, but just to make her pace a bit more expedient, like that's Because what she's doing, she's trying to get her daughter to come over to her isn't not working, and it's early in the morning y'all are dropping the kids off at daycare.
Speaker 1:Yes, she don't know you, nigga. She has no idea who you are, and if we're not talking about race, I'm using you as a ploy to get my fucking kid to come here. Why, why, why does that offend you so much If you're?
Speaker 3:trying to build a forest fire.
Speaker 1:Why does that offend you so much?
Speaker 3:I tell you right now, you ready If you're building a fire for survival, right and you have kindling and wood and all kind of dry brushing shit, but you choose to throw the motherfucking squirrel carcass into the fire to make it hotter. You are a psychopathic, murderous motherfucker Like why not use this other stuff that actually works better? There's tools that work way better than fear, especially fear at the expense of this Like what?
Speaker 1:Give an example, give an example. Why me, why you, using it?
Speaker 3:Give an example of how, of what else she coulda did.
Speaker 1:To get her kid to, because you don't know how that kid responds All-. Let's say that kid responds well to fear.
Speaker 3:Let's say clearly she don't, Cause she was, it wasn't worth it If she woulda took a lollipop out. You think that woulda got the kid to come over. Listen, if that was Dre, there are six things I would do. None of them are. Oh my God. There's a scary white woman, or okay, let me. There's a scary. There's a scary monster.
Speaker 1:There's a scary stranger.
Speaker 3:No, you said what she said nigga, like I wouldn't use fear like that woman. Okay, let's say there's a dog I wouldn't ever be like the fear is, the fear is the dog's gonna bite you. I would never do that. The race take the race out of it and take the race out of it.
Speaker 1:The race is why you're why you're.
Speaker 3:You have a problem with it.
Speaker 1:The race that scary person is gonna bite you like I wouldn't ever use fear Is why you have a problem with it, because and here's why no, no, no, no, Wait, wait, wait, wait, You're wrong. My God, Look, if she would have done any other, you wanted her to use a different type of approach.
Speaker 3:I just wanted her to make her kid afraid of me. If anything.
Speaker 1:You should've been proud because you're just looking at her like, damn, you ain't got no kit, no handle on your kids. Meanwhile I'm over here. My kid is over here walking with me to the class because he knows how to pay attention and listen. Now, I was holding up.
Speaker 3:I was holding his little ass.
Speaker 1:Okay, well, I'm trying to get Listeners. I was trying to help you out.
Speaker 3:I don't need help. This motherfucker didn't have to use fear Because you're holding him.
Speaker 1:I'm what? Because you're holding him.
Speaker 3:You if he was walking and he started doing that? What, what? Why are you caping for this woman?
Speaker 1:I'm not caping, for I'm playing devil's advocate, which you always play. No, I don't always play with it, right?
Speaker 3:I don't like that Okay.
Speaker 1:Here's the thing.
Speaker 3:No, no, no, but let me give you do you think it's okay because we keep like? Do I think it's okay to use fear, yes, okay. Well then, we, we differ just ideologically then that we agreed, it agreed. Disagree, my brother. Not the only tactic.
Speaker 1:I don't agree with that, but I use fear from but you said that she was calling him. She said that she was calling her and she was not coming over and she didn't Know she was probably in she was walking.
Speaker 3:She, her mama, just wanted her to go faster. She's like hurry up, susan, scary bad guy, bad guy, bad man, bad man, he's gonna get you, he's gonna get you. And she didn't even move faster, if anything. She slowed down, looked at me and smile and she's like to her teeth Again just to recap for again no, cuz, I've got your way in the hallway.
Speaker 1:I got your ass.
Speaker 3:She looks at the teacher and says see nothing the listener.
Speaker 1:The listeners right now nothing are saying that that that you Are wrong because it does have. It does have to do with race. It bothered you because she you because you're the listeners, said I'm wrong you well in this, because you're saying you have a problem with her using the tactic a fear tactic to, so you're saying yours here is okay as a tactic to, to discipline her to, not when it comes to ethnicity, no, no, no, I take ethnicity. We have to apply that because you would not have a problem.
Speaker 3:Okay, if it.
Speaker 1:If she was black, let's say you would not ever probably your line writer about how to survive in the world.
Speaker 3:It should operate under. You have a problem because she's teaching.
Speaker 1:Like black, she teaching her daughter to fear black people.
Speaker 3:She used you as a figure To say hey, bad guy bad guy.
Speaker 1:I would you think you're the only nigga that was in the hallway? Yes, exactly, I wasn't.
Speaker 3:I wasn't just the only nigga, wasn't a nigga to you, I was the black you, I was a breathing homo sapien in the hallway. There's no one else there for me or her if there was another guy in there In the hallway. No, if we talk about on what happened, on what happened, are you saying that? Yes, see, I'm not saying that she was trying to teach her child to fear black people.
Speaker 1:I don't know what are you saying?
Speaker 3:What are you saying? What you? Think what are you saying?
Speaker 1:You are easily trying to flip on, flip this on me, because you're not used to being wrong.
Speaker 3:I must.
Speaker 1:Alright, let's move on.
Speaker 3:Real mother knows black and a bird baby. That's crazy.
Speaker 1:His mac is he got your ass All right. So the biggest thing that's on this trending in the news right now is None other than you guessed it, donald Trump. Former president, donald Trump.
Speaker 1:Listed as playing crashes as six, three A five, two hundred and fifteen pounds on the booking record, had his picture taken at Atlanta's Fulton County Jail last night, where he turned himself in for allegedly conspiring with 18 other to reverse the 2020 election results in Georgia. After glaring into the camera for his close-up and making bail, he left, but not before leaving his visual imprint on history. Trump's mug shot he immediately took to, took the throne in the hall of famous arrest photos Spreading across the internet within seconds of being released. Trump himself shared it on.
Speaker 3:X.
Speaker 1:Twitter in his first post on the platform since being banned for almost two years. So this is a big deal, because now Etsy and all these other you know t-shirt companies or marketing companies are gonna use his photo for propaganda and Well, and probably like a marketing tool, for like an intro to a political rally. I can tell you what bro.
Speaker 1:It's gonna be on niggas shirts for, and I'm starting to see the shift of niggas of black people. Huh, go ahead. I'm starting to see you to see the shift of black people that weren't in support of Trump before, when he was before he became president, while he became president after. I'm starting to see the black Culture shift go back to in favor of Trump because they're just like, hey, your agenda's gonna go oh wait now. Yeah, it's. I'm not saying that it's the masses.
Speaker 3:No, I'm not. I promise, you made that up you and you ain't been looking. You even look you just sat back and said what you gonna see, I guarantee you.
Speaker 1:T Mark my Words Dino, I guarantee you.
Speaker 3:I'm gonna be you're gonna.
Speaker 1:It's gonna be closer to home than what you think. There's gonna be niggas that are gonna be. I mean, it's not me trying to put the narrative out, but it's just going to happen.
Speaker 3:It was part of super pack, listen. Well, listen, I go. They moved to he cuz there was a blackening of my neighborhood, cuz I live in the birds a bunch of niggas moving out people can't Like.
Speaker 1:I put like this what.
Speaker 3:You can not rock on him all of a sudden, cuz he's now he's he got a mugshot. I know.
Speaker 1:I'm not saying that, but you're right about one thing what they're already using his photo for funding.
Speaker 3:Yeah, he has a super pack and supporting him has already released a mugshot already putting it on Advertisements to like generate funding, like using it as a witch hunt. Oh, look look at this mess. It's the first, yeah, but, bro, it's freaking. Twilight Zone bonkers this man is still the front-running Republican candidate right exactly, exactly. We know he did the crime. Right now we just talk about like people love a good story.
Speaker 1:People love a good comeback people love the bad guy in this in this day and age, really, yeah, you go to a WWE show, whatever niggas are rooting for them for the bad guy it's different for the like. Loudly they used to boo John Cena when he was when he was still wrestling. That's why he was kind of forced to retire a little bit earlier than what he he got a bag in it acting but um and then when you're what, when you go to watch movies and stuff like fast-ex, people would Chen and happy to see the CJ.
Speaker 1:Some more Thanos. People were rooting for Thanos, rocking Thanos shirts and stuff. I love what he stood for.
Speaker 3:They were rooting for him. Now you, I don't know, I get you as Joker. I get you there. I was rooting for him the whole movie.
Speaker 1:Yeah, I mean. Well, that's because, like that was a different rendition of.
Speaker 3:Storyline biggest villain in history.
Speaker 1:Yeah, because he's playing Exactly we're rooting for him. They love the credibility and they love the notoriety attached to him, the Conor McGregor. He was known as like the infamous bad guy in the UFC, and that's why he became like the biggest the karma caught up. Combat martial artist athlete like on the planet. And now we see Sean O'Malley. He's not necessarily a deemed as a bad guy, but you know, you just say it cuz the Irish.
Speaker 1:Well, he has the Irish background, but you know he, he does a different thing to kind of like make himself stand out like he, he colors his hair. He does the braids, the white boy with braids, like right, you don't like it, but the masses do in its appeal and it's it gets the people going. It's what. It's what will. Ferro was saying in a niggas in Paris on the song from blaze the gory you lost me remember it's the line in the song. No, but but the line in the song.
Speaker 3:Oh yeah it's a member. It gets the people going what's the fun?
Speaker 1:the name of it All right, but anyways, american gangster to Pepsi. Wait, what is going on? Blue, blue magic you lost like, oh yeah, like what? Oh that is catchy. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's captivating. It's uh, what do we talk about? It's galvanizing. Good, what I'm saying is, trump is galvanizing the people and it is going to in. I I'm telling you he's probably gonna become president again but that's so sad we are probably gonna happen. You don't want it to happen. Remote taking his head, oh shit.
Speaker 3:That, bro, we have a slightly gonna happen where the front-running political candidate for fucking president is.
Speaker 1:Criminal is a proven criminal and people love in the bad guy like bro, he's horrible Like that.
Speaker 3:people is so crazy.
Speaker 1:It's cuz you screaming out Doesn't mean that grab him, but he's so despicably disgusting my nigga.
Speaker 3:Like he looks bad. He is bad for real.
Speaker 1:He don't get fucked about no black people used to use his name.
Speaker 3:He's like the grown-up Richie, rich Donald Trump, his name was synonymous with money. That's the only reason people used it. That rocked with him. But now, like there's so many things that come out like this niggas a proven criminal and he's a stooge. It would be different if he was like a criminal he was real smart or real cunning, or he was like a mob boss, mafia also type. He's a fucking.
Speaker 1:I'm a clown idiot. I'm going to say I'm gonna challenge you right now. I'm gonna challenge you right now and I'm gonna say something positive about him. What's one thing that you breathing guys? Beautiful air. Okay, let's go ahead and just go on to the highlight topic, hey hey, hey, murder game.
Speaker 3:She's slow to slow to shit.
Speaker 1:All right, ladies and gentlemen, for the highlight topic. We have a myriad of questions. Think of this episode as 21 questions, since we were talking about 50 cent and we've been kind of asking each other hypotheticals and scenario questions. And I have even more to ask. My co-hosts, my best friend Dino, and you all as well, would love to see what the listeners think in, so make sure that you write in, give me two passes let's see, say some show I'll give you yeah, already did a process of elimination.
Speaker 1:I had like about 20 of them and then I got it down to about 21 and then I got them down about seven. But we're not gonna do all seven, I know for a fact. We just let me hit you with this one, let's go. How do you respond if your friend brings someone to a function that you yourself Were invited to and you didn't know that they were coming?
Speaker 3:Okay, your friend brings someone to a function that you were invited to. But it's your function, or is it?
Speaker 1:there, oh, and they didn't. They didn't know that they were coming. All right, let me run it back, run it back. How do you respond? Okay, if your friend. Uh-huh bring someone to a function that you yourself were invited to, okay. And you didn't know that they were coming Question. So, for example, you got invited to a party.
Speaker 3:This friend they're bringing you didn't know was coming. Do you not like them? Or like you know what?
Speaker 1:I'm saying Like, think of it like this you got to pass to go into the club, right Into local seat, and you hit up the owner and like the owner invited you out. Okay, like, oh cool, is it cool if I bring my partner? And then he's like, yeah, yeah, yeah, you mean JT, yeah, you can bring him Cool. And then I, and then you're like, all right, cool, yeah, he's about to pull up right now, and then I pull up, and then I got three niggas with you, yeah.
Speaker 3:I got Ramon with me and you like damn, I know you Like bro.
Speaker 1:Why didn't you fucking tell me Okay, and I'd like pull a fast one. So how do you? Because now you got to go back to.
Speaker 3:Kev is already doing who am I in this scenario, though? Who am I in this scenario?
Speaker 1:You are the owner?
Speaker 3:Am I the friend who showed up?
Speaker 1:You're the friend. Okay, let me do this again. The owner of a club invites you out to like to exclusively to his, to his club. Okay, and then I'm on the phone with you right After you get invited and you like, and I ask it can I come?
Speaker 3:Can I invite it? Invite someone else?
Speaker 1:Yes, okay, okay, okay, yes exactly Somebody that you invited.
Speaker 3:Necessary context Got you.
Speaker 1:And you and your partner your partner that owns the club already gave you the pass that Bring those one guy, right, but then I bring an additional person, so now it's three people coming into his club through the VIP.
Speaker 3:And your question is what do I do, or okay?
Speaker 1:What do you do? Do you? Do you hit up the owner and be like hey man, look, I know, I just asked you for one.
Speaker 3:I mean, I wish you had put a name on it.
Speaker 1:Cause like cause it doesn't matter who it is, who you said like this spot, like who I mean, I mean the owner doesn't know that. The owner doesn't know the third person.
Speaker 3:Yeah, that literally happens, that has happened already. But like, I guess, if you take like this is just any nondescript place, you know the third person, but they don't, they don't, I mean and even if they cool this spot. They here though. They pull up, they here.
Speaker 1:Right.
Speaker 3:I mean, yeah, I'm gonna try to make it work.
Speaker 1:You, gonna try to make it work. I ain't gonna send them packing. That's interesting. I know niggas that would be like look.
Speaker 3:Forget niggas. Hold on, hold on, forget them.
Speaker 1:You do, what would I do? Yeah, what do you do? I'm sorry you can't like, but okay, look, there's two different. Listen to your heart, listen, I have finesse, so I feel like that's the reason why you, yeah.
Speaker 1:So uh-huh, that needs a ding, because people don't understand that. That's a talent, that's an art to have. Is finesse To be able to have a mouthpiece to get you to like? The art of persuasion is literally what we're saying, listeners, when we say finesse. The art of persuasion is real. It is a real skill that you have to develop. Sometimes you gotta be born with it, you gotta be in unique scenarios to just have like the funk sway to be able to woo people to get them to do what you need them or want them to do. I didn't, yeah, funk sway wasn't the correct term, but even even.
Speaker 3:That's why you're Mr Vernac. Hey, I'm listening.
Speaker 1:But anyways when I'm saying okay, so it's two ways I can move, because I have that sounds a little bit like manipulation.
Speaker 3:So this is clarifying, yeah, I mean because it is. Oh well, yeah, it kinda is.
Speaker 1:I can't Like, so I would have the. I do have the ability to finesse, but in this instance I'm not going to, especially if it's if I know that he doesn't know this person, if the owner doesn't know the third wheel, but is that even finesse? And it well, hold on hold, on listen. Here's why I'm not going to finesse. If they, if the chemistry doesn't make sense, I'm sorry, oh no, okay, you put me in that, so now now I told you you can come, but now y'all both can't come.
Speaker 3:But what if Either you get rid of him or what if they? Energy is in perfect alignment.
Speaker 1:Then I'm willing to to to pull my trump card.
Speaker 3:Now are both punitive right. Why are we guys-.
Speaker 1:Oh shit, where's the jump card? Oh, I'd fucking lost it.
Speaker 3:Yeah, fuck that name. Fuck it lost it.
Speaker 1:Ooh no, yo, what's up?
Speaker 3:Yeah, there we go.
Speaker 1:All that for just finesse.
Speaker 3:Finesse. Check it out Anyway. Okay, so is that finesse, though? Yes, both are finesse.
Speaker 1:Wait, is finesse. Oh yeah, I would actually use finesse to tell them to like because you-.
Speaker 3:Cause you said, then I would try if they. Oh well, if the energy is similar and I know they were, vibe out, wouldn't-. Here's what pisses me off Is that finesse?
Speaker 1:This is what pisses me off about this scenario you may know nigga. No, no, no, no, because I've been, I've been in this.
Speaker 3:I know you've been in it too. Just don't drop no names. No, no, no, no, no. Okay, go ahead.
Speaker 1:I'm not, of course not, but here's how I view it. You know why? Why? Why do you? I'm gonna ask you a question, oh shit. Why do you think I would be pissed off in this situation? Because let's flip it right Okay, I am the person that the club owner invited.
Speaker 3:Well, I mean-.
Speaker 1:Wait, hold on. I'm the person that the club owner invited and then I'm on the phone with you and he already got the pass, saying like he already doing me a favor by inviting me to this club, now he's doing me a second favor by saying that you can come, and then you bring Ramon, and then I'm like Unannounced Right and now I'm mad at you. Because I'm mad at you, because I'm just like you put me in a situation and you didn't say nothing, so you're trying to manipulate me you talk about so that's a failure of communication?
Speaker 1:No, no, no, no. Yes, it's a failure of communication, but it was on purpose.
Speaker 3:You made sure to not bring it Well, how you know that though, huh, how you know. Because the nigga was in the car with you. But check it, he might've been like-.
Speaker 1:And you made sure I'm not gonna say nothing, because I already know he gonna say no if I ask him right now. So I'm gonna wait until we get there. You assuming the worst, ramon, you've been in that situation, right?
Speaker 3:You assuming the worst, check it, it can also be-.
Speaker 1:You capping bro.
Speaker 3:Look, he could be like he know my partner right, he'll say, yes, I could be assuming the best.
Speaker 1:You assume, yeah, you could. And it's even more. Yes, it is. It is equally as bad and even more of a reason why I would be more pissed off at you, because you assume, because you always think that I'm the guy right, I'm not talking real, real spill right now, or whatever. I'm just saying, like in that scenario, they always assume that I'm the guy, that I'm like. He already got me in. So what is it Are you saying To get one more other person in, or whatever.
Speaker 3:He can do it. He missed a finesse. I've lived that life. I've been the extra guy who showed up because it was like hey, shit, I'm going here, you wanna come through If I and I just showed up.
Speaker 1:If I'm the extra guy, I'm always gonna try to provide in a sense of hey man, I got a hundred on it. I'm sorry, I know I wasn't supposed to be here. What.
Speaker 1:What am I? I don't wanna impose, but the thing is, when I am playing at clubs, I don't think they can hear you, so you gotta speed up. What are you trying to say? No, no, no, no, no, no, no no no, no, no, I'm not turning your mic on but the thing is when people come through and let's say become and bring stuff through.
Speaker 3:Yeah, yeah, yeah. And even Zoma came through they good, they good, yeah. I was like hey, that's how I am bro. Okay, you don't even freaking kick back some parties I've thrown in. Bro there's people who showed up.
Speaker 1:For all the listeners that did in here. Ramon basically was saying like if he was put in that position, he already knows that anybody that tags along is good, because he always puts himself in those situations where he's gonna be good. But you don't frequent where we frequent all the time and the places that I frequent, ramon, you don't think they'll be good. Hell, no, fuck, no, I've been good If we going-. Are people being good, is it but again like okay, so local seat versus-.
Speaker 3:Why you keep bringing like it don't gotta be local. I know that's the spot, but it could be anywhere bro.
Speaker 1:All right, let's say we're in New York.
Speaker 3:You can always If we're in New York.
Speaker 1:I would probably be able to get away with being able to. It's happening To do that versus somebody like Ramon.
Speaker 3:We've done it. What do you mean?
Speaker 1:Like someone he would be able to finesse it if it was Spanish speaking people, but I don't think he would be able to finesse if it was just like-.
Speaker 3:Well, isn't it like a hood ass spot?
Speaker 1:Cause I don't even wanna finesse that anyway it's okay, all I'm saying is that in that situation, I would be upset and I would likely say you know what? Because you put me in this predicament.
Speaker 3:You'll be upset if somebody showed up to. Okay, I'm not gonna assume I would I might even get to the point where I'm not even.
Speaker 1:I don't even feel comfortable going in there anymore because I don't even feel comfortable calling him back up and being like hey, man, I need a third favor.
Speaker 3:Bro, a third favor, Tiz you gotta acknowledge too, because you know what that's like. That's like that don't mean that's the norm, though.
Speaker 1:Somebody knocking on your door at five o'clock in the morning and you wake up, you're like, yeah, bro, okay here, oh knocking again. As soon as you walk all the way back to your room and you're knocking the door at the end, you're like, okay, you get back up. Yeah, oh, again, bro, my bad, you mind if I take your car too. Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, all right, here you go. Who the fuck is this? All right cool.
Speaker 3:And then you go back to sleep and then you no, no, no, is this one of the homies? Ain't none of my homies gonna show up in my doorstep?
Speaker 1:and me gonna ask to take my car, never mind. I just couldn't think of a good example, of formidable example of time.
Speaker 3:They're clearly high and drunk.
Speaker 1:There's no way. If someone is going through Ha ha, ha ha. Let me ask you this I'm listening If somebody is going through something and they ask you for money.
Speaker 3:I had a question for you.
Speaker 1:And you loan it.
Speaker 3:Okay. Okay friends and money now All right yeah, yeah, here we go.
Speaker 1:If someone is going through something and they like a rough patch and they ask you for money and you loan it or donate it to them.
Speaker 2:Okay, let's just say and then they go and do something else with the money.
Speaker 1:Do you have a right to be upset with them? They say business.
Speaker 3:They ain't gonna do me.
Speaker 1:Oh wow, We've talked about this before in the pot and I said loan or donate, because donate means you giving and you don't expect it back. Nah, but there's two different things. And loan it huh.
Speaker 3:Yeah. So you say, or we can talk about both, or Right?
Speaker 1:We can talk about both. Correct, because they have different. I put both in here for that reason, because I knew you were gonna immediately resort to all those two different things If I give bread away or whatever it's gone.
Speaker 3:Once it leaves my hand, it's gone. Once it leaves my hand, it's gone.
Speaker 1:If it come back, cool, but would you fill some type of way If I said that that was gonna be for my mom?
Speaker 3:I mean I went and got a chain.
Speaker 1:I went and got a chain.
Speaker 3:That's just a bad event. What kind of chain is it? What kind of?
Speaker 1:It's something that you would judge me. Is it solid?
Speaker 3:gold and VVSs.
Speaker 1:You'd be upset with me. Okay, well, you'd be ashamed and I took the 250, 250 dollars I'm gonna fill away for sure, but like, honestly, you wouldn't fill away.
Speaker 3:Well, no, I mean, I'm gonna fill it by that dumb ass purchase. But that's like saying what if I took your money that I was supposed to use for my mom was cancer treatment and I used to buy 100 packs of Kool-Aid.
Speaker 1:Would you say something?
Speaker 3:I'm gonna say you, dumb nigga.
Speaker 1:Did you say something to me?
Speaker 3:Yes, you would, oh, really you would Well we're getting a rare form of Dino.
Speaker 1:This is a scenario. This is a scenario you just paint it.
Speaker 3:If I give you bread for some very specific serious situation, like your child's treatments for her A bone or two, fucking dare. And.
Speaker 1:So Go behind and okay, bro, listen you tell me to be quiet on my own show.
Speaker 3:Bro, you kill it. Listen All right, yeah. Yeah, all right. So let's say, you say I mean I'm gonna use this money to fix my sons. My son needs a Surgery for his kidney and his prosthetic leg for his arm. I'm gonna say, okay, man, yeah, I'll give you the bread, bro, I'll give you what I can give you. I can spare. I'll spare a thousand dollars. Huh, there you go.
Speaker 1:Boom, it's yours.
Speaker 3:I'm sad that I finessed you basically but then I find, then I then turn around your son don't even like your son man, he thrive in out here in these streets and you use that money for real to instead go by 200 packs of airhead sourced yeah, I'm a show but your house and hit you in the motherfucking face.
Speaker 1:What if the son was still was still in the bad condition and I just fucked off that money? I didn't even worse. Yeah, I know.
Speaker 3:I'm really gonna beat you up for real yeah. I'm a holler to wife, say what's up with your man. I don't know like bro, she's seeing this shit too. Yeah she's clearing that up. If your son is terminally ill and you out here gambling and buying airheads, you didn't get beat the hell up. Well it's happening.
Speaker 1:Wait what no? No, no, not me like really talking like not the same. I'm saying that that that's it. Like this is happening.
Speaker 3:Um.
Speaker 1:I mean don't fiends maybe. So what if you loan it? I mean, I'll be honest, bro, I'm a few lonely. What, like, do you tell them it?
Speaker 3:depends, like I mean, it's not my business. Some people are gonna ask what they may tell a certain story to get my bread. You're right, it is a bit completely different it, but they may do some things. That, I think, is oh man, that was some nut shit to do. But Loki, he was invested in something that I don't know about, let's say crypto or now AI, and they wind up making mad bread off of it.
Speaker 1:They make a but what? What did I ask?
Speaker 3:I'm gonna be like he's stupid and he went about some stupid, but what did I just tell me?
Speaker 1:a millionaire. What if you loaned it, meaning that they got to give it back? Yeah, so cool, like so. I find it interesting that you said oh.
Speaker 3:So you say, if I gave this guy, let's say I loan him 500, because the first example was you was you donating it?
Speaker 1:You like you gave it away and it's just like all right. No, it's not, no, it's not, no, no, no, no, no. I don't think.
Speaker 3:I think for you, you have to understand something. What? When I loaned something? I'm considering that money gone forever.
Speaker 1:No, no that's my philosophy, you can't change that.
Speaker 3:That's my ideological perspective. When it comes to money, when it leaves my hand it's you're trying to then.
Speaker 1:So then you shouldn't be lonely.
Speaker 3:I get it back.
Speaker 1:You shouldn't be you shouldn't be calling it loaning, then when I what I'm asking you?
Speaker 3:is if you're not?
Speaker 1:okay, all right, let's just say that you would never loan money. You would never know no money. I know that that's the expectation I'm gonna tell you the difference.
Speaker 3:I've already lived this. The difference is when someone says, hey, can I bought? Cannot, can I have $200? I just need to make rent or Versus, can I borrow 200? I'm gonna pay you back when I get my check in two weeks. That's a different thing. If you don't tell me I'm gonna pay you back or can I borrow, I'm gonna assume that I'm not getting it back. And even if you say, can I borrow it, I'm gonna give it back to you in two weeks, I'm still gonna say this nigga probably will never give me this money back. And if that's the case, oh Well, that's so you never expect any money back.
Speaker 1:I never once I give it to you and broke.
Speaker 3:Can I tell you I've gotten it back and I've never gotten it back.
Speaker 1:Because you've always been let down. That's why you don't expect it anymore, and because you're just a good guy. I just you're a really good guy, but that's not my business.
Speaker 3:But, but I'm not okay, don't be no suckers. Don't be Dino, right now I need you to. I'm not a sucker, though If if it's in, this has happened to, if I didn't gay you bread I Mean three strikes is pretty good for y'all listening, don't just. I mean the three strike rules. I mean maybe let's say you like even numbers, give them, for maybe I'm not just gonna let you just see you take my money, bro, and I'm gonna let you just take my bread forever.
Speaker 1:So there's no way. So then I don't, I don't even like asking you.
Speaker 3:I mean like I don't think you could ever use the term loaned in like if you say, if you commit to paying me back, because now I am, if you're never gonna ask for if you're never gonna ask for it back, then you should just always see, that's a different question.
Speaker 1:You say no, what would you do? How would you respond if they? That's what I asked.
Speaker 3:Oh.
Speaker 1:Well, I, originally I asked you, you have the right to be upset with him, yes. But now I'm asking you what would I do I? What would you do Like? Would you even have you even have you ever asked? Have you ever loaned out money and then asked for it back?
Speaker 3:I brought it up. I haven't asked for back per se because, again, because of my philosophy, bothers me that you're worried like that.
Speaker 1:I mean it's a great like we talking right now.
Speaker 3:Let's say this is the same thing with the hot, without, with or without the mics. Let's say we're talking like man, no, just a at 200. I gave you a month ago what you do with that, what's so with that? Only, if you told me I'm gonna give it back to you in a week, and we, two months down the line and you haven't even brought it up, and you, my, you, my guy, yeah, I'm gonna bring it up. I mean, yeah, sure. Now let's say you say, ah man, oh shit, man, that's gone. Okay, cool, it's gonna Get no more from me, probably, yummy.
Speaker 1:I saw it probably wasn't appropriate for that, more like a punch.
Speaker 3:That's bad.
Speaker 1:Well, I shoot somebody for.
Speaker 3:I need my money Because, again, if I gave it to you then I can spare it. I'm never gonna get somebody something I need for real.
Speaker 1:How many times does it take for you to what? Not I do give them money again.
Speaker 3:If they are saying three strikes, you're out.
Speaker 1:I mean three times. Oh my god.
Speaker 3:That's the amount of money it depends on a person, because it's a bit of a pin on the mouth, though, so that means that I can ask you for it. Okay, I love this act because that means I can get away.
Speaker 1:I've asked me for $500 three times and before, so you can literally throw out $1500 to towards me before you, just like I'm never getting no money again 1500.
Speaker 3:What's the max? I mean it's nice, you love numbers even less, I'm so, so how much? Yeah, this is so for me.
Speaker 1:I don't work in that way, I guess what's the term? Yes or no?
Speaker 3:Binary's. You can't argue with numbers, but check it binary Bob.
Speaker 1:Oh, that's not binary been. By never in binary Bryson.
Speaker 3:No, I you can do. Tiller it's a I say you can't do young Tesla Lane's. So no, bro, I mean I'm not gonna run down on nobody, but I am definitely gonna hold you accountable, absolutely yeah, I'm not gonna just take my bread.
Speaker 1:Dang well. Speaking of money, I did have another question, but I'm gonna wait until we have some more, some more folks.
Speaker 3:I got a question for you, yeah, and then we can wrap this up.
Speaker 1:Okay, save somebody's. Oh man, I'll stick to our hour. Episode Dang me.
Speaker 3:We're already over an hour, but I'm gonna say this Okay, well, I'm gonna switch the question up. I'm gonna circle it back real quick, just to that first scenario you gave me. Yeah, is it the same thing? In this scenario you gave, it's like okay, you're talking about the club one, the club thing, okay, whether you're the club owner or you're the person who is the friend who invited somebody, who invited somebody that you didn't know, yeah, I'm in right and either scenario, you're sour from what it sounds like.
Speaker 3:is it different? And I'm assuming the reason you're sour is because it's an inconvenience? You've already said to you know, I've been inconvenienced, I've been an eruption of people. I haven't disagreed I might be a disruptor. I'm aware, my bro, I'm different.
Speaker 1:Some did.
Speaker 3:If I'm defending people, if I'm like you know, I wear my locks down with a dashikiyon on a Corporate zoom call just because I can't.
Speaker 1:Well, that's good for you and that's why you're the good guy.
Speaker 3:Why not?
Speaker 1:You're the better of us, huh.
Speaker 3:It's nothing wrong with it and it's a problem if it is. If you wait, for what do you? Never happened. I know how you feel.
Speaker 1:You know you said it's not a problem for you for me to put you in a peculiar Sit? Why is that pick was peculiar in it, or not peculiar, but precarious. No, no, no, no, in a Um, in a hindrance, in a bind. Okay, we were so much a bindful scenario or situation. Okay, and you welcome that. You are saying that you. You just asked me that's not good, that's not a good thing. You just asked me is that a? Is that not a good thing? No, that's not a good thing for me to take advantage of you and put you in a situation that you now got to get both of us out of.
Speaker 3:Oh, that's not a good thing. You said I welcome it, I'm good with it. Okay, check it. You run in a different direction, so check this out here's the question.
Speaker 1:Here's the question question.
Speaker 3:Okay. Either way, you're sour because this person's putting you're putting them in a bind. It's an inconvenience? I don't. I happen to operate differently. I was asking what's wrong with me being a disruptor? What's wrong with me dressing different, looking different? What's wrong with me asking questions? What's wrong with me this, this and that because your friend, already did you retort a question. There's two favors. You're asking for a third problem if you're throwing like a kickback or a oh you're changing this, weakening the same absolutely the money if it's a club or because it's like a genuine inconvenience.
Speaker 3:And then now, you're already have supplies and some people haven't showed up and this person coming is like. So what?
Speaker 1:I'll put it like this if it's a kick, wait, wait, wait if it's a kickback, uh-huh, if you bring in Surplus a food and drinks if you're the third person and I'm gonna vouch for you to come into this party now and Exhaust another lifeline, you better have something in your hand to bring to the party. They got a bottle If you don't have it. Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, then in that case, okay Then, yeah, yeah, because, because, how I'm looking at that, you're not gonna be too much of a disturbance to the chemistry.
Speaker 3:It's like 50 to 100 people now with this back and stuff whatever if it's the same thing, I guess, I guess It'll be what you know what, if it's less people, I'm actually probably not going to like.
Speaker 2:No, no, no, no, you know you didn't get me, you didn't get me, yet no, it's not about getting you.
Speaker 3:it got you thinking oh, because no, no, no, it's got me thinking as like I'm still yeah, like. Again, I don't like this. Like you, own this house, so what you got any come through. I is, he are you. Is he good with you if you invite people to?
Speaker 1:my house, you don't tell me, and then they show it to my friend, I'm upset with you. I still would be upset if somebody's with me. I still would be upset with you, because you know better.
Speaker 3:No, no, better check it. Am I gonna just show it with somebody unannounced that is not like my, you wouldn't what if? It was my like, my blood sisters, my sisters, I would still be.
Speaker 1:I was just. I was just coming, I just have to be upset. Rika J, I would still be upset I don't give a fuck different. Yeah, we are different, I know.
Speaker 3:Understand why I would be upset, huh. No. Because Jen is so it matters who it is. Nick and your answer don't say the same.
Speaker 1:No, I know it. No, it's a take, the gen thing Take. I'm not disputing that. I'm not. I'm not disputing that. It that it matters who it is, this is.
Speaker 3:this is what I'm gonna give you. This is, this is, but you act like that.
Speaker 1:I'm contesting now. I'm not contesting that. I Realize at all.
Speaker 3:This is how I can bottle this up. To give you like a good, a good snapshot of my perspective. Take the it being Jen. That's the surprise guess and the feeling like, oh shit, okay, whatever. And Take this. Imagine you're at the club lounge, whatever, and the whole scenario with the house part was a surplus of shit. He's like, oh, I would you. Alright, you got for them, you got a bottle, I cool, take both of those bottling up and let's, that's how I am in any scenario, if I'm the club, if you, I'm gonna try to make it work.
Speaker 1:You be good if I, only if only if it's Now I'm gonna bring up something that, yeah, you didn't think about.
Speaker 3:If it disrupts chemistry, no, no, you brought that up and I agree with you 100%.
Speaker 1:I'm not busy, best Okay because yeah, so like, let's go back to Jen I. There would be a couple instances where I would be upset because if Jen doesn't fit the aesthetic, you now relinquish my control this whole fucking party now. I now you put, making me feel uncomfortable, like oh my oh.
Speaker 3:Yeah, I know.
Speaker 1:I don't think that there's nothing wrong with how I feel and how I'm responding.
Speaker 3:I mean, yeah, you know right, a wrong answer. Okay, we're discussing, but that's interesting, you're right, I'm gonna put myself on that.
Speaker 1:But yeah, for sure, because that's what I hate. I can't stand when people that has had to me take my An environment or a setting that I have created, you can't cultivate it and I got excited for it and then now you are like literally Get, give me the verb or the answer to it. No, no, no, not disruptor, but you're like Uh that's the value of Damn of what I was expecting.
Speaker 3:They change it. I won't say it's a lesser value, it's just I'm saying, I'm saying and I don't give a fuck, I'm Mr. Somebody had to say it, but I know, but there's also been beautiful moments, though, where people have showed like who the fuck? And.
Speaker 1:That's cool, but I don't want that moment. I don't, I don't, I don't give a, I don't give a fuck how beautiful, huh, you've had to happen to, or no? Yes, but I still don't like it when it when that happens, even though it might be something beautiful to come out of it, I don't want to be put in that, put in that scenario.
Speaker 3:I feel you at all ever it.
Speaker 1:Don't sit there and force me and be like you, just not being open-minded, like, okay.
Speaker 3:So I was listening to it, so we're okay from what you said, though. No, but there are time was like I I don't. I don't love it in rain look.
Speaker 1:I'll be damn happy if you ever hear me say I said you know what I? I'm kind of taken back by this. I was wrong about this scenario. I am fucking lying. I am lying.
Speaker 3:No, you don't have to be wrong, bro, you can just.
Speaker 1:I am lying, see your face. I'm saying it for the, for the sake of everybody there, to make them so better, but then, once everybody leaves, I'm being like don't you ever fucking do?
Speaker 3:that and put me in that position again, do you know?
Speaker 1:because Even though it was something cool that came out of it, it could be somebody I still don't like how we got there. I don't like I don't know, I don't and I can't. I can, it depends on what's happening. But don't agree, disagree, huh, no, no, no, it's not no. Agree to disagree, because I don't disagree with how you, with anything that you said I don't disagree with at all. I'm just telling you you shouldn't be disagreeing with how.
Speaker 3:I'm presenting is how I feel about that. I like that for you, but I am not that way.
Speaker 1:Yeah, because you, you are wired differently and again you are the good guy. Every scenario like.
Speaker 3:You're never the bad guy in no story, Damn you're never the bad guy.
Speaker 1:What is?
Speaker 3:good.
Speaker 1:You're never the bad guy, you are always mr Right. Mr Mr PC, you know I'm not.
Speaker 3:No, no, no, no no no wait, wait, wait. I stand correct.
Speaker 1:No, not, not all the time.
Speaker 3:Sometimes it's a most of time is a noise, but it can be bad, I do, it can be bad, but let me say this.
Speaker 1:Okay, you, you are, not only are you an anomaly, most of the time, but you are most fitting in most, if not all, scenarios.
Speaker 1:You can be brought to any situation. You can de-escalate just about any situation because of how your mindset is. We'll try to, really. But sometimes you need people to be there to say no and no means no and boundaries are not meant to be crossed. And sometimes you need to stay 10 toes down and make sure you uphold those boundaries. And then when you try to leverage friendships and relationships to get over those boundaries, that's when we start having problems, Because you just like, so like people taking advantage.
Speaker 3:Yes, manipulation Again. Because like, because now you're like okay all right, all right, so I'm gonna use the. I agree with that 100%.
Speaker 1:I'm gonna use the scenario that recently happened when you asked can this person come? And I told you what I said and you still were like. You already had it kind of like made up in your mind that you're like even if he says no, I'm still going to push until he says yes and no, in fact you go back.
Speaker 3:You caved, I didn't caved, I did caved.
Speaker 1:Because it was you. I'm being caved, but here's the thing.
Speaker 3:No, no, no.
Speaker 1:That was me throwing a lifeline out there you made my point Tizzle. No, no, no, no, no. Tizzle, tizzle. Sam had already told me no and I went against her because I did you a favor, because I was like you would do that for me. But you're the only, you're an exception Again. You're the anomaly.
Speaker 1:And I gave you the benefit of the doubt, but I guarantee you it could be you or a sad. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. It can't be. Then I get. It would have been a hell. No, you lucky. I like that nigga. That's why I let it. Who can't be where it?
Speaker 3:wasn't. That's what I'm saying.
Speaker 1:I can't say names right now. No, no, no, I would say some names, but you know there's a list out of all your friends. There is a. It's like five people and then everybody below those five is a hell no. There are particular times if we welcome in or stuff or whatever, but if it's not the aesthetic and this is my house that's the other thing that we got to fucking acknowledge.
Speaker 3:No, no, that's a whole other conversation. You welcoming people into my house and I let's say that this shit wasn't. There's no different than you owning a club lounge, bar, whatever, that's your stuff.
Speaker 1:That's your shit. Let me tell you this the reason why I said why I caved in it wouldn't even a cave, bro, it was capped to begin with.
Speaker 3:It was like I'm just being a dick, I'm just being ass on whatever, I'm just no, no, no, I'm just saying I understand. Yeah, whatever, Belco. Yeah, yeah, whatever, what Like that's.
Speaker 1:Of course, of course, like anytime.
Speaker 3:it could be a human, it could be an animal, it could be a dog, a turtle, it's always a yes. What? They go, yes, but not with anyone. Would you what Name? The time it hasn't been or it wouldn't be.
Speaker 1:You can't. That's the only reason why I say yes, because you always say yes.
Speaker 3:And that is exactly my point. If it's a person like me who's bringing in another person Again, we're not talking about.
Speaker 1:I'm not disputing that, I'm not disputing we agree, yes, we do, but what I'm saying is but what I'm saying is give If it's another scenario. So there's exceptions to the rule, but generally, if we had our original guess, If we had our original guess, I think I would have said Can I give it to you, Paul? I would have told you no still.
Speaker 3:You said you don't, so this is what I'm getting. You don't like being put in that situation, which I respect, but if you are, there are times that you're cool with it If it makes, if it's certain things.
Speaker 1:I never said that I would. No, I never said that I wouldn't. You said I don't like being put in a situation. I don't, yeah, I don't.
Speaker 3:But and then?
Speaker 1:we're still gonna have a conversation Under certain outliers or whatever. I said that before that. There will be times where I would allow that shit to happen.
Speaker 3:So it's similar.
Speaker 1:Yeah, it's the same thing you didn't win this conversation. It's not a win. Why do you think it's a lose?
Speaker 3:You treated it, because that's how you smile. I know that's how you, bro. You just think the words All right. No, there wasn't.
Speaker 1:If anything, I'm smiling like oh, we agree One time how we doing on time All right, one time All right. Cool, that kind of tied into. I know what you were gonna ask earlier about being on. Like, where are you on your friends list in terms of?
Speaker 3:Oh the totem when they place.
Speaker 1:Yeah, the totem, right, because and I'll go ahead and put this out there we're not gonna go deep into this or whatever, but it's just more so, like last comments, right? Okay?
Speaker 3:Final thoughts.
Speaker 1:When it comes to others having you on their totem list, in terms of how much they value you and in terms of, for simpler terms, best friends, so I must be hiring your list for you to accept me bringing someone unannounced Exactly.
Speaker 3:But someone lower on your totem. Perhaps.
Speaker 1:There's only two people that can get away with. No, I'm sorry, there's like there's about three people, you got more than two.
Speaker 3:Jay, you got more than two.
Speaker 1:No, there's only one additional person, and it's Margaret. Well, you didn't have to say it. It's you, courtney and Margaret.
Speaker 3:Okay, y'all are the only three you just put out a lot of people who probably feel like they may be. You probably leave some people out. You gotta say names.
Speaker 1:I'll put it like this there are some others, there are many more that. Can you know who you are? It depends on what the scenario. But what I'm saying right now is any scenario. Y'all are the only three that could get away with Universal.
Speaker 3:Okay, yeah.
Speaker 1:Y'all have the master key.
Speaker 3:basically, yeah, and maybe you should put some of your family in it, but nobody else has that. Huh, I'm sure some of your family too, like my dudes, no no, some people no, I've gotten mad at my mom for inviting people
Speaker 1:to something and didn't tell me about it until they Until Like that shit that you pulled a couple of weeks ago on Homeboy.
Speaker 3:Hold on a minute Shit that I pulled on Homeboy.
Speaker 1:And you got out the car and you were like hey, real quick, bro. Like I'm just letting you know that I brought this extra person and stuff. Whatever?
Speaker 3:Yeah, yeah, hey that shit would not fly with me, bro, you're so fucking lucky that he allowed that to happen. If you were to, homie. You say if you were to homie you would have been upset if I showed up like that.
Speaker 1:Oh, fuck, yeah, oh, without a doubt, bro, what the fuck?
Speaker 3:Can I tell you something? Can I tell you how I know this cap? Can I tell you how I know this cap? What you know? The exact same weekend you had like pay-per-view, some fight or some shit, and you was like shit, y'all come through what, there's no difference.
Speaker 1:There's no difference. It's because, no, there's a difference, because that's the situation, I'm inviting.
Speaker 3:I'm very merry in that particular. Like I want to yell and scream with other people, even people that I don't know, and what that was. You would have been good even if you didn't know, but you were inviting another nigga that it's somebody's house that they had no idea who they were.
Speaker 1:I mean, yeah, and that's where you gotta be mindful, bro, that's where you gotta be mindful. You bringing somebody else into the house I don't know this nigga, check it and you saying hey, can he come over to your house?
Speaker 3:I didn't even ask, but if I told him right, it's cool, right? If I did that, what does that mean? That you take your? Do I do that like that? Is that something I do? Do I just always do that you wouldn't?
Speaker 1:do that with me, but you did that with him. I would probably do that. You did that with him, but you would never do that with me. You would never bring somebody that you. I don't know, unless you knew that they were appropriate for the environment and the situation.
Speaker 3:That's what I did. There's no difference. I would show what was something unannounced If I knew they'd be golden, of course.
Speaker 1:When it comes to putting people on the totem pole as far as best friends are, just like having their universal key and whatnot. I let it be known that I do you have a list? Not only keep tabs on my friends, but I do have tears and I love showcasing the tears.
Speaker 3:What do you mean by that I?
Speaker 1:love showcasing the top two tears of my friendships to the lower tears.
Speaker 3:You'll say something that's actually not bad and it sounds so sinister when you say I love showcasing the it sounds like so game of thrones. Not even that Hunger games made the odds be ever in your favor. I love the top. You must get to the top tier of the tizzle, top tiers of the totem. But it's not that at all. What you're really saying is you love Bitch n**** snitch n**** hope, n**** bitch n****.
Speaker 3:Okay you're gonna press every button. What more do you? I forgot we had that button. I feel like what you're really saying is you like showing off the people with whom you admire?
Speaker 1:You like showing them off.
Speaker 3:I mean, that's beautiful, that's dope. But you made it sound so nefarious.
Speaker 1:By the top of my totem, because it was meant to be. If you work your way up there, you're like, yeah, look at my squad, you see these people here.
Speaker 3:They earned a right to be here. I can ask different Because? We are you don't really. I mean, okay, that's how you feel, but what does that look like?
Speaker 1:Okay, here's why I do that. Here's why I showcase and pose it to be like, yeah, you can't really sit with us. You can eventually if you put in the work. But the reason why I love showing off my friends is because that's what friends are supposed to look like, in my opinion.
Speaker 3:What is showing off your friends look like.
Speaker 1:When we, if we're posting on the story, we're having drinks and stuff. It's a bit settings and stuff where people aren't going to be. It's invitation only. I will showcase those types of events to let people know like, hey, you weren't invited here because.
Speaker 3:Bro, you'll have something good.
Speaker 1:But there's two things. It's two ways, it's twofold. It's not only show. It's a little bit of bragging and boasting and show boating, but listen, it's also inviting you to exclusivity. I'm still giving you access to see and witness it, so that it will be motivation for you to go and do that shit.
Speaker 3:No, no. Why can't it just be like yo, this is shit we got here and this is real dope. This is what we got going on, why I got to be. This is some dope shit we got going on and you should aspire to be like us.
Speaker 1:You Because I'm young. Tears on the motherfucking. What the Okay, all right, because I'm him All right, okay, all right. So, ladies and gentlemen, we hope that you have enjoyed this very back and forth.
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